Friday, September 6: A story about a time you were very afraid
Summer of 2011 I was going through a difficult time. I was babysitting 35 hours a week long days, 8AM-7PM for a family of 5 kids 2 of them were teenage girls. While, also attending summer classes 2 days a week 12PM-4PM. The only day of rest Sunday. I seriously wanted to die by the end of the summer. To make matter worse my bf and I broke up during this time. Summer 2011 was one of the depressing times of my life. It was hell trying to get through each day and having to deal with children just made for a very cranky sad Dannielle. I would come home at night sad and annoyed at everything and everyone.
Friday July 2, 2011
The day from hell. It was the end of the week and all I wanted to go was home. On this particular day I was driving everywhere. To add stress to equation I had a mountain of Laundry to do for the family. Oh and did I mention one of the teens and I were having a terrible day together. Its 6:30PM and I had A HALF hour left. Then I was free for 10 hours before I had to be back the next morning. Before my temporary release I had to drive the 2 younger kids to a sleep over. I forced the older sister to come with me because she was my friend and I needed to vent.
After dropping the two little ones off we are driving home and we are ALMOST THERE!!!! TWO MILES AWAY FROM HOME!!!
WAMMM! CRASH! BANG! We get into a car accident!!! I will never forget that day. I was driving the family's car with the oldest daughter and we hit Not a car but a MAN on A Motor cycle!! Mother Hell to the Lord. Really?!?! I have never in my whole life been so afraid. We were okay and shockingly so was the car. I felt terrible and at that moment convinced I had just killed a man!
Thankfully I did not, he was badly banged up though. It turned out we were both at fault. A witness said it looked like he hit me. Bikes don't break well and he had to have been speeding because I did not see him over the hill before the light. But, I was still at some fault because I failed to yield at a yellow light. It was an unfamiliar intersection I did not realize how the lights worked. I guess a lot of accident happen there. To be honest it should not be a two way stop light.
Seriously have never been more afraid in my whole life. I thought I killed a man and would be going to jail. Now, given the situation the worst part was calling my mom and telling her what happen. I had been really brave mainly in shock and had not cried once! Until it was time to call mom. I still remember the feeling of utter dread trying to say the words "I got into an accident." I could feel my emotions catching up and knew the water works were coming...
A time I was afraid....
On a lighter note due to my lack of money flow I had NOT renewed my License at the time so the very nice cop had to drive the car to remove it from traffic. I had to sit in back and wait for someone with a license to get the car. So embarrassing!!!
Things I learned
No you will not go to jail.
Yes you need to have an update license
Check double check and triple CHECK all intersection before turning left
If you Do ride a Motorcycle Please be cool and wear a helmet!!!!!
Friday, September 6, 2013
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Open Mind Open Heart
Day 3. Pass on some useful advice or information you learned and always remembered.
I say this because to many people are quick to judge, quick to disregard an idea or a person. In this situation I am talking about people. Human are naturally leveling themselves up to one and other. We think of ways we are better then someone else whether it be out of jealousy, insecurity, or just being ignorant. We all want the best for our loved ones and sometimes we don't agree with THEIR LIFE choices or people they choice to include in THEIR lives.
People want the best for their children. However, when your 24 year old daughter has been with the same guy for 8 years, it might be time you take a step back. Open your mind and your heart because this Man is the ONE. My best friend has been in a bi-racial relationship for the past 8 years. High school sweethearts! Her dad has never liked or agreed to the relationship because he was Black! :( As result, the relationship was kept from her father. Until recently, when they decided to move forward in there relationship. "Time to tell Daddy"....well he was not okay with it and at this point has pushed his daughter away almost completely.
I cannot help but be so sadden by this situation. I met Norman my freshman year of high school and immediately he became one of my best friends. He is the most loyal, sincere, and generous friend I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Norman has always been there for me when I needed a friend or a big scary black man to save me from a possible Craig's list creeper. What I love Most about Norman is he treats my best girlfriend right! For the last 8 years he has been a dedicated boyfriend to Christine. In 8 years they have never broken up, never left each other and NEVER cheated. They have a real connection and love each other to death. Who wouldn't want a good guy like Norman for their daughter.
Why can't you be as happy for her as I am...?
Today's advice stop judging people and get to know someone. Open your mind and heart because you never know who you are missing out on knowing or even loving. Just because he is black doesn't mean he isn't good enough for you daughter. He is the best for your daughter.
Just because you are black doesn't mean you have no future.
Just because you have Tattoos and Piercing doesn't make you scum.
~Be open minded with everything and more specifically every person you meet~
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| For Christine and Norman |
I say this because to many people are quick to judge, quick to disregard an idea or a person. In this situation I am talking about people. Human are naturally leveling themselves up to one and other. We think of ways we are better then someone else whether it be out of jealousy, insecurity, or just being ignorant. We all want the best for our loved ones and sometimes we don't agree with THEIR LIFE choices or people they choice to include in THEIR lives.
People want the best for their children. However, when your 24 year old daughter has been with the same guy for 8 years, it might be time you take a step back. Open your mind and your heart because this Man is the ONE. My best friend has been in a bi-racial relationship for the past 8 years. High school sweethearts! Her dad has never liked or agreed to the relationship because he was Black! :( As result, the relationship was kept from her father. Until recently, when they decided to move forward in there relationship. "Time to tell Daddy"....well he was not okay with it and at this point has pushed his daughter away almost completely.
I cannot help but be so sadden by this situation. I met Norman my freshman year of high school and immediately he became one of my best friends. He is the most loyal, sincere, and generous friend I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Norman has always been there for me when I needed a friend or a big scary black man to save me from a possible Craig's list creeper. What I love Most about Norman is he treats my best girlfriend right! For the last 8 years he has been a dedicated boyfriend to Christine. In 8 years they have never broken up, never left each other and NEVER cheated. They have a real connection and love each other to death. Who wouldn't want a good guy like Norman for their daughter.
Why can't you be as happy for her as I am...?
Today's advice stop judging people and get to know someone. Open your mind and heart because you never know who you are missing out on knowing or even loving. Just because he is black doesn't mean he isn't good enough for you daughter. He is the best for your daughter.
Just because you are black doesn't mean you have no future.
Just because you have Tattoos and Piercing doesn't make you scum.
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Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Maybe not Travel Just yet.
Wednesday, September 4: If you could take three months off from
your current life and do anything in the world, what would you do?
This one is incredibly difficult to pick. I have so many ideas of things I would want to do for three months. After viewing a few other blog post on the topic I have decided I will go a different way. Its clear that if we could have time off everyone would travel. I know that is something I would love to do considering my life has been uneventful. I haven't had as many chances to travel.
Going to Europe, and backpacking though the country and living it up in a different city every week, would be epic.
Lately, I just want to get in my car and travel America that would be such an experience. My boyfriend got to travel from CT to CA with his sister via car. I was so jealous!!! Also, I want to live in a city more specifically Washington DC because it is just beautiful and there is tons to do!
However, If I had to really pick I would LOVE LOVE LOVE the opportunity to act in a comedy sitcom. . Sounds crazy to want to work, but I have hit a time in my life where I haven't worked in a long time due to schooling and now I'm having a difficult time finding work.
Therefore, in my boredom I have come to terms that I would love to act. I feel I would do well in sitcom. I can totally be funny :P Since this my fantasy I get to choose my big starting show, which would of course would be Co-staring in my new favorite show Baby Daddy! I started watching this summer and have become addicted!!! I would just love to be apart of the cast. I have learned they are all really good friends off screen and oh my gosh I would just love to hangout with Melissa Peterman! Most of all, I would love the opportunity to act and be someone completely different. I have always loved theater. I would seriously cry and envy the people who performed in plays I watched. I would start crying wishing I could be them. I am not even joking on the crying part. However, due to being extremely shy I never got to act in plays in high school. Why can't I just be discovered in a mall like some actors.
Three months off.... forgettraveling I would Act and have a role on Baby Daddy and I would be Danny's new love interest. NO, there is no hidden agenda in there. Oh and because I am acting aka "working" I would make Money!! Then with that money I would travel the world.
This might be lame to some but this is something I have become very passionate about and would just love to do with my life.
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| A Dream!! |
Going to Europe, and backpacking though the country and living it up in a different city every week, would be epic.
Lately, I just want to get in my car and travel America that would be such an experience. My boyfriend got to travel from CT to CA with his sister via car. I was so jealous!!! Also, I want to live in a city more specifically Washington DC because it is just beautiful and there is tons to do!
However, If I had to really pick I would LOVE LOVE LOVE the opportunity to act in a comedy sitcom. . Sounds crazy to want to work, but I have hit a time in my life where I haven't worked in a long time due to schooling and now I'm having a difficult time finding work.
Therefore, in my boredom I have come to terms that I would love to act. I feel I would do well in sitcom. I can totally be funny :P Since this my fantasy I get to choose my big starting show, which would of course would be Co-staring in my new favorite show Baby Daddy! I started watching this summer and have become addicted!!! I would just love to be apart of the cast. I have learned they are all really good friends off screen and oh my gosh I would just love to hangout with Melissa Peterman! Most of all, I would love the opportunity to act and be someone completely different. I have always loved theater. I would seriously cry and envy the people who performed in plays I watched. I would start crying wishing I could be them. I am not even joking on the crying part. However, due to being extremely shy I never got to act in plays in high school. Why can't I just be discovered in a mall like some actors.
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Three months off.... forget
This might be lame to some but this is something I have become very passionate about and would just love to do with my life.
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
I come from-family.
Welcome to my blog I am hoping to gain some new reader and hopefully you all will like what I have to say...
Tuesday, Sept. 3: Describe where or what you come from. The people, the places, and/or the factors that make up who you are
I come from a big Italian Family so we are loud and holidays are kind of a big deal. Seriously, It is not Thanksgiving without sitting at the table with my family and having my cousin Tony next to me.
My Grandparents are my idols who are still married to this day, They one of the only couples I know who still love each other to death. My grandpa would do anything for my grandma and I appreciate the time I get to spend with them more then anything. I love watching as my grandpa takes care of my gram. She has a few health issues and grandpa is always by her side. Its amazing to see that kind of deep love.
In my family everyone body knows everyone's business and well I love it! Being that its a family of TEN. My grandparents and there 8 children plus there children, there is plenty of gossip to go around. Now being that we are all close we do have our typically tiffs. HOWEVER, No matter what we are always there for one and other. IF someone is in the Hospital well you can bet there will be a party. Even if its for stitches.
We all show up!
My grandpa is the heart and soul of the family and keeps us all in line. I have nothing but respect for that man. He is the most genuine man I have ever had to the pleasure to sit with and share life. In our family you respect the elders. Never would I talk back to him. Side note he does not like swearing and well I have a truckers mouth. Hes funny thought, always somehow turns the check when I drop the F bomb. He cares so deeply for each of his children and all ever wants to do is provide for them everything he can. Hes is such a sweet man I could not ask for a better grandpa.
Now, the most important women in my life is my mother. She is my Rock, Best friend, and most of open to the person I am. She has always been my number one. I seriously have no idea where I would be in life If It wasn't for her. She is the strongest toughest women I know. She will fight for anything she wants and she will succeed. She doesn't take disrespect from anyone and she will be herself even if others don't agree. Once she sets her heart on something she follows through. I love the passion she has in life to achieve many of her goal and deepest disires. I wish to be just like her someday.
This is my life and where I come from. We work hard to make ourselves happy. If you are in trouble you call and we are right there. No matter what we will drop whatever we are doing to be by your side.
We stick together. Most of all we respect.
Tuesday, Sept. 3: Describe where or what you come from. The people, the places, and/or the factors that make up who you are
I come from a big Italian Family so we are loud and holidays are kind of a big deal. Seriously, It is not Thanksgiving without sitting at the table with my family and having my cousin Tony next to me.
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| Family table. Tony in Strips keeping out seats. |
In my family everyone body knows everyone's business and well I love it! Being that its a family of TEN. My grandparents and there 8 children plus there children, there is plenty of gossip to go around. Now being that we are all close we do have our typically tiffs. HOWEVER, No matter what we are always there for one and other. IF someone is in the Hospital well you can bet there will be a party. Even if its for stitches.
We all show up!
My grandpa is the heart and soul of the family and keeps us all in line. I have nothing but respect for that man. He is the most genuine man I have ever had to the pleasure to sit with and share life. In our family you respect the elders. Never would I talk back to him. Side note he does not like swearing and well I have a truckers mouth. Hes funny thought, always somehow turns the check when I drop the F bomb. He cares so deeply for each of his children and all ever wants to do is provide for them everything he can. Hes is such a sweet man I could not ask for a better grandpa.
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| Grandpa <3 |
Now, the most important women in my life is my mother. She is my Rock, Best friend, and most of open to the person I am. She has always been my number one. I seriously have no idea where I would be in life If It wasn't for her. She is the strongest toughest women I know. She will fight for anything she wants and she will succeed. She doesn't take disrespect from anyone and she will be herself even if others don't agree. Once she sets her heart on something she follows through. I love the passion she has in life to achieve many of her goal and deepest disires. I wish to be just like her someday.
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| My Best friend |
This is my life and where I come from. We work hard to make ourselves happy. If you are in trouble you call and we are right there. No matter what we will drop whatever we are doing to be by your side.
We stick together. Most of all we respect.
Saturday, August 31, 2013
BlogTember
The time has come again for yet another challenge
One I feel I will actually follow through with
Instead of blogging EVERYDAY (which totally failed at)
I think I was able to make 17 out of the 31 days.
The new Challenge is blogging every day of the week
Weekends off! Thought of by my favorite blogger
Jenni Story of My Life
Join me Monday for start of a great month of blogging as much as I can.
Jenni has come up with some great topic that I am very excited to write about.
Dannielle L)
One I feel I will actually follow through with
Instead of blogging EVERYDAY (which totally failed at)
I think I was able to make 17 out of the 31 days.
The new Challenge is blogging every day of the week
Weekends off! Thought of by my favorite blogger
Jenni Story of My Life
Join me Monday for start of a great month of blogging as much as I can.
Jenni has come up with some great topic that I am very excited to write about.
Dannielle L)
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Time.
For awhile now nothing seems to be anything
Everything seems out of place.
Am I out of place?
Should I be here where I am right now?
It is right anymore is anything right,
Well that would For certain be a NO.
I feel I will always be second when I once was first,
I read things I know I shouldn't
However, my eyes can't help it.
You would be mad.
What is the point?
Most amazing indescribable feelings god can give.
I am not as real.
Everything seems out of place.
Am I out of place?
Should I be here where I am right now?
It is right anymore is anything right,
Well that would For certain be a NO.
I feel I will always be second when I once was first,
I read things I know I shouldn't
However, my eyes can't help it.
You would be mad.
What is the point?
Most amazing indescribable feelings god can give.
I am not as real.
Friday, July 19, 2013
The Golden Ages.
I am watching midnight in pairs and it is literally making me want to write and be in love
I want to walk the streets and talk with someone special. I wish I could walk with Michael right now and connect with him.
I am craving this so badly right now but at this moment we are not together and its driving me insane, Its boys night for him.
This movie is very intense and crazy: an engaged writer travels at night back to the 20s and bonds with the Fitzgerald's and Hemingway. What a treasure that would be to be in a room with them and learn from these incredible beings.
Time travels is the most incredible phenomena. I wish it was possible for me to part take. I would go right to the 20 for certain it is my favorite time period everything is just so simple and fun. Dancing and laughter. And No technology! To be in a time with no technology would be a treasure.
Love is my passion in life it is what make me. I wonder what love would have been like then and how easy it might have been. I feel it was probably a time where you could get lost because it was just the two of you in the world. I feel technology although great really doesn't allow for much alone time. Its like there always a third being in the room.
What do I want to do with my Life I want to travel through time! I want to see the 20s and live slowly.
I Just want to walk right now.
I could babble on for so long But I will contain my excitment.
I feel So enlightened and free within myself of this moment. One day I will travel to places and maybe I'll find myself on the streets of pairs at midnight and maybe I too, will get in a car and travel to the 20s.
I want to walk the streets and talk with someone special. I wish I could walk with Michael right now and connect with him.
I am craving this so badly right now but at this moment we are not together and its driving me insane, Its boys night for him.
This movie is very intense and crazy: an engaged writer travels at night back to the 20s and bonds with the Fitzgerald's and Hemingway. What a treasure that would be to be in a room with them and learn from these incredible beings.
Time travels is the most incredible phenomena. I wish it was possible for me to part take. I would go right to the 20 for certain it is my favorite time period everything is just so simple and fun. Dancing and laughter. And No technology! To be in a time with no technology would be a treasure.
| Googled 1920's Love |
Love is my passion in life it is what make me. I wonder what love would have been like then and how easy it might have been. I feel it was probably a time where you could get lost because it was just the two of you in the world. I feel technology although great really doesn't allow for much alone time. Its like there always a third being in the room.
What do I want to do with my Life I want to travel through time! I want to see the 20s and live slowly.
I Just want to walk right now.
I could babble on for so long But I will contain my excitment.
I feel So enlightened and free within myself of this moment. One day I will travel to places and maybe I'll find myself on the streets of pairs at midnight and maybe I too, will get in a car and travel to the 20s.
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